Please don’t let him be…
Whenever one of these crazy shootings happen everyone is hoping and praying that the perpetrator is not from their group. They make the prayer “Oh God, please don’t let him be______”
And whichever group he happens to be from then goes into damage control because their community is about to go under the microscope.
Had the maniac at Virginia Tech been black, Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson and others would have probably been out telling people to understand what this guy has gone through and that society caused him to do this. We would hear about how something must be done about gang violence, poverty and all of that.
In private, blacks would have a lot of choice names for the maniac (such as C.A.N.) that caused so much embarassment. Especially had it been over a white woman. In a few months he would be fair game for comedy skits.
Had he been white, we would have heard about “angry white males” and neo-white supremists would have come on TV talking about how the white man is the one getting the shaft nowadays and how apparently the shooter was angry about it.
Had he been Muslim and/or Arab, chaos would have ensued and the calls for prison camps would have reached fever pitch.
Had it been a female, we wouldn’t have known what to think. Never heard of such.
When the news comes out, everyone just waits and hopes the maniac is not “one of us”
There’s a crucial moment early in many crime investigations when the first description of the assailant comes out. When the attack happens on campus, like it did Monday at Virginia Tech University, the initial question is obvious: student, faculty, staff or outsider?
Then come the details. Student. Male. Black coat. Stoic. Maroon hat. Determined
When the gunman is identified, there’s the possibility of more tense moments when, after all rumors and accounts are sorted out, the ethnicity is announced. In this case, the first official word came that the shooter was an Asian student, but it was unclear whether he was an international student studying in Virginia or, as it turned out, an Asian immigrant who grew up in Virginia.
…and at that point non-Asians can breathe a sigh of relief that they will not be vilified and remove potential embarassment from the back of their minds while still being appalled. At this point some bigots were hoping and speculating that it was a Muslim.
Then, finally, confirmation: the killer was Korean. That news—along with a face plastered across television sets and tabloid-style Web pages—arrived early Tuesday and was repeated in nearly every account.
Bigots were still wanted to know if he was a convert. Some media officials even came to the masjid in Blacksburg to find out if he was a convert to Islam.
Soon, the conversation had turned to heritage. Facebook groups started with titles such as “I’m Korean and Have a Gun, Don’t Be Scared,” “Why did the Virginia Tech shooter have to be an ASIAN” and “This is Not About Ethnicity.”
South Korean government officials expressed their dismay that a native son would commit such a crime. National Korean groups sent their condolences. Korean student groups created message boards to both express grief and prepare for the venom likely coming their way.
Brian Choi, the newly elected president of the Korean Student Association at the University of Michigan, said he was surprised to learn of the gunman’s identity. “We tend to be known as the model minority; you don’t expect Asians to act in that manner,” he said. “There is a sense of shame and disgrace — we don’t want to be associated with that.”
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But by Wednesday the gunman’s “resident alien” status had already emerged as a major storyline. The student in charge of the Korean Student Association at Virginia Tech, who did not return messages for comment, told Newsweek that he had received calls from multiple Korean students on the campus telling him they felt “horrified and scared.” A Korean college student told Inside Higher Ed that her non-Korean roommate’s parents warned her that, to avoid any danger, it would be best not to eat at a Korean restaurant.
Hugo Schwyzer, a history and gender studies professor at Pasadena City College who writes frequently about ethnicity, gender and student life, said he is concerned that as a result of the attention given to Seung-Hui’s background, Asian students will be teased and further typecast as socially awkward and introverted.
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The reality, says Eun Sook Lee, director of the National Korean American Service and Education Consortium, is that had the shooter been white, no one would have made a big deal out of his background after the first reference.
“What I’m saying is that in Columbine, the whole white community didn’t have to apologize and take responsibility,” she said. “We need to extend our hand and extend our condolences because it is a tragedy. But it will also be a tragedy if this comes to symbolize Korean Americans.”
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“[Seung-Hui] was an American sociopath who committed a crime,” she said. “That’s nothing to do with what we’re about
I don’t think that Asians or Koreans will face a backlash, but it is sad that everyone is afraid of everyone else’s bigotry and racism. The silver lining is that more people are realizing that everyone - including the “model minority” has some maniacs amongst them. That is how they should be seen: as lunatics.
As those of us that are living can take lessons from this, I will note that no one wants to hear about how he blamed rich kids or society at large for his rampage. It is seen as illegitimate. No one is saying “well we need to look into that” or “yeah it was a tragedy, but you need to look at this”
The families of the victims were so offended that NBC aired the maniacs excuses that they canceled their interviews. “Yeah…but” is just horribly offensive in light of lives being taken. No sensible person wants to hear what comes after the “but” now, or any other time.
This was a rampage by a deranged lunatic…PERIOD. End of story. No “ifs”, “ands”, or “buts” about it.
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Thank you.
You’ve expressed many people’s thoughts.
I’ve just came accross your blog. You hit the nail right on the head! Keep up the great work, will be passing by more often.
As long as we divide ourselves and others into various groups based on spurios characteristics like “race” then we’ll always be hoping the mad/bad guys aren’t “one of us” or “one our my group”.
I’m White. I do not feel pride when other white people do something good. I do not feel shame when they do something bad.
I just see humans doing good/bad things.
I’ve actually found it quite easy to cease the cultural conditioning to “belong” and “identify” with one group above others.
Dodo, where do you live? More than likely, you are not a minority where you live, so there is no reason for you to feel pride or shame. Now if you are living in a country as a minority and a crime is committed that is reflective (stereotypically) of your people, trust me you would feel shame if they did it and relief if they didn’t.
Also, are you Muslim Dodo? I find it hard to believe that if you are a Muslim, you do not have a reaction everytime a crime is committed that you know the first thing people will say is, “I bet a Muslim did it.” I remember the day of the Oklahoma City Bombing, I wasn’t even a ‘real’ Muslim then and as soon as the report came in, I thought “O please God don’t let it had been a Muslim!” With 911, I was like “I know they will blame this on a Muslim!”
When I worked at the Juvenile Detention Center, it was on the news that a juvenile had killed their Grandmother, because she did not let him use her car. First thing I thought was, “it was a white boy”. I was shocked when a black boy came in with his white friend who helped him do it. I thought, “I knew a white person was involved cuz black folks don’t kill our family…espcially Grandma.” That’s why i don’t get too uptight when other people do the same thing. It’s just how we have been bought up in the West.
As-salaamu alaikum all:
I think that Tariq really hit the nail right on the head as he has articulated the feelings that most Muslims have had as this sad, tragic massacre went down. I was telling my wife the other day, and brother Tariq alluded to this in his piece, that if indeed this was a Muslim or ostensibly done “in the name of Islam,” we would all be hearing calls for Muslims to be thrown into interment camps, ASAP, and not just from the usual, extremist anti-Muslim bigots on the fringes that were already to a certain extent insinuating stuff like this. I’m sure most Muslims have collectively been breathing sighs of relief (and I don’t want to come off as selfish as this massacre was a despicable, evil thing to have happened whoever the perpetrator) because of the fact that the perpetrator was not a Muslim.
However, I really wanted to say something else also, and wanted to post this since the first day or so since this tragedy happened. Not to state the obvious, but unfortunately, and although a very small minority (insha’Allah), there are many Muslims that of course do hold very “extremist” and/or misguided views about the Deen, and I do believe that Tariq has touched on some of this before. These brothers (and sisters) would have welcomed the news of a Muslim doing such a barbaric, heinous, evil act. These brothers see every killing or massacre of civilian non-Muslims as very much 100% halaal, good and praiseworthy, nadhubillah. Of course some of us are to a certain extant in denial of much of this. I mean when one of us brings this up to other Muslims, sometimes what you will hear are things such as “we should not care about what happens to non-Muslims (for instance the Madrid bombings), look at what they are doing to us in Iraq, Chechnya, etc.” or “don’t you know that the zionists are responsible for these alleged terrorist attacks so they can make Muslims look bad, in order to destroy us?” and so on. The way that these misguided “extremists” have tarnished the name of Islam and done despicable things in the name of Islam A, and B, the way that IMHO, many of us are in complete, total and absolute denial is very, very depressing, and upsetting to say the least.
May Allah (swt) guide us all. Ameen
I couldn’t agree with the last three paragraphs more